Tank running off into the sunset... : EverQuest 2 Premium Discussions

Hello, noob here, so pls have patience, i will learn the right way to ask questions in time .
Im runnin 3.1c, i got a war and a drud, war offensive, drud buffin. yes 2 computers.
I got SAMESPOT on war, since i interpret that as "stay here and fight".
But, after like 5 minutes of working fine, the tank just wanders off, actually more runs off, and the drud wont follow.
The follow issue, well, actually the NOT follow issue, is less important too me. The issue is why tank run off?
Both are dwarf so I doubt its like a racial issue, u know, I dont like highelves, they so stuck up, so ill just run off and leave u here to die u stuck up highelf.....
Also I tryed turning off harvestin and lootin and only got fighting on. Still same issue.

From the little deranged info i posted here, is this a problem others have had? tank running away even thought SAMESPOT is chosen?
If yes, pls, any suggestions will be greatly appreciated, except such as Get a Life, i get those from my wife a lot anyways

Thanks in advance, A Noob