paulc0000 (!empty($user->lang['WROTE'])) ? $user->lang['WROTE'] : ucwords(strtolower(str_replace('_', ' ', 'WROTE'))):
(If this information is already posted, I apologize for my lack of seeing or understanding it).
And dont feel bad about that. I cannot find anywhere that it might read the actual instructions other then within the post and the main thread leading to that post. I cannot say that I have seen one solid posting yet detailing the entire instruction set, but then again, perhaps I just havent stumbled onto the correct message yet. You would figure that all of these issues would be common because, really, how often have you been the lucky winner to encounter the first issue within a service that is as seemingly popular as this one?
If that is the case, you and I should run out and buy a lottery ticket!... ASAP!