Roadrunner did all they could to help but could not fix the issue.
On verizon now and no issues at all what soever. thanks for everyones advice in this matter!
on a side note: my 2nd copy of XU on my machine with the intel grapics onboard chip that i have never been able to get to work, yeah it works now! w00tz! dont know if it the new isp or the XU team may have chagnged somthing since last time i tryed to log that one.
I am happy my conetion good again AND i have XU working on 2nd machine now!
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