RDM with the Worst luck. : FFXI General Discussions - Page 2

/blacklist add jacmelchery

I think we all just came into the rare class of the Noob!!!
The one kind that origionated from Battle Net..... years ago....

I agree with asl18fs

Help is given not earned or payed for. After someone helps you or you help someone all you should get in return is a THANK YOU that is all.

Now if you are constantly helping someone in particular and when you ask for help they never do or are not even willing to try. Then guest what you are being USED.

Also dont trust the females in the game. Real females in FF11 that are not crazy are very rare and fake ones well they are fake. If you build a relation with a female in the game or so you think is a female. Dont help or give anything that you are not willing to lose aka Scorpoin amor i think it was you lost to a Mithra RIGHT for Ballista or something? Also and very important dont expect anything in return. If you do get something in return. Its because she is a friend not because of what you did.

Also keep in mind that LVL affect on what they are going to be willing to help you in.

Not trying to bash you or make you feel bad just advice.

I have a lvl 74 thief friend

He is a very close friend of mine. He helps me allot. I try to help him in return but I am only a lvl 57 white now thanks to him. Their have been times when he has asked for help and I could not. Not because I didnt want to help. Yes sometimes he gets mad that I dont help him but he is still my friend because he does not expect things in return for the help he gave me. I someday hope to return his help not because of what he did. Just because I know that He is a very good person and a close Friend.

Was it just me or did anyone else start getting a headache from reading his posts. Whine whine whine. All of those spelling/grammar errors were making my eyes hurt.
I am a 61 whm. If anyone in my 1 (still original from lvl 10) needs the help, I help them if I am available. I don't expect anything else in return, but it is nice to see that when I ask for help, they are most willing to help me back.
I really think he needs to spend some time away from this game to calm down.

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I hope your not taking about me.
If you are your words hurt me phhhhhrr ahhhhahaha ohh that was rich

If your not talking about me. I quit reading after the 2nd one since he repeated the same thing over and over and over again. I also could not follow since it was over a 1000 words. My attention spand is not that long and i am not very patient.

He did whine allot but I think he is just venting. That is why I stop reading his replies.

You guys take it anyway you want- Hey not much I can say in that. the post wasnt about how much people I can get to help me. It was about who had the same type of bad JUJU i had in this game. I went to 14 O hat run so far now. ne of them I was second online. For some reason someone aggroed 2 flesh things from below. everyone died and everyone left. I mean why?. The 13th one I was 4th. we did the first no problem. someone called for help on the second one. people getting frustraded cause they lost their cluster and stop paying attention and died on the 3rd and everyone left. --- Nex time I'm gonna go first - but I will be tank by then. Ninja is not too far off. and you guys crying up there. or what not . I never asked for your opnions. I was trying to see if anyne had the same misfortune that I have. If you then feel threaten - cause you are one of them people just sit around and be center of everything. sorry for you. just leave the post alone.

Sorry if you guys feel this way- not much I cand do about that. Not asking for sympa. just wanted to see if anyone had the same problems I have. Well I wrk nights and I 'm at wrk when I post things. not much excitement here. till I get to go back to Iraq.

Hmmm

I think the is a misunderstanding here somewhere. I have seen many of your post so I do believe what you say.

I have had the same problem where I help someone but get none in return. It happens hopefully that person will change some day. If you notice people like this just stop helping them they will eventually either do one of the following

1.Ask why you are not helping them anymore.

2.Stop asking because they where just using you.

3.Explain why they are not able to help you and apologize.



1 & 3 Are done be friends. These people will help you in the long run.
1 The person might not even realize that you are mad or that you feel used.
3 Done by friends that notice they did something wrong and are willing to change.


2.These people are useless trash that should be treated as such.
2 You dont need friends like these. Most of the times these people only help or do things for the own gain. They dont appreciate anything and dont care.

I am sorry jacmelchery if it seemed that I am bashing you or making fun of.

Far from it my friend. I hate to see good people get taken advantage off. I think that is what has happened to you on a couple of times. Dont let those cases ruin everything for you. Learn from it and never look back. Keep trucking like you say you are doing and forget about those people that have used you they are not worth your time.

Thank You. I love this game. I mean comming from another country . Small country and never see that much of getting to gether is kind of fun. I would have quit by now. But My wife plays it My sis does 2. IT's a real fun game. I luv helping and being in the millitary people take advantage of you alot. but you still feel doing the right things is just right. but sometimes it's what makes things works. I help people cause I hate to see them shouting for so long. Back in my country we help build houses or what not we dont have to know who you are. But being in America I was expecting lots more help from People that leaves arounds us.
I took the post off cause it seems people things I was crying for help or what not. It's not the case. I tried to rewrite the main post to reflect what I want to say. My english may be what's getting all this fuz around it. Wish I caould write it in my language.

Thank you everyone that did understand. and everyone that answered. I dont have to like what you write but atleast you write something and I /bow to you for that. Hey I dont take anything personal. You tend not 2 when you are in US NAVY. I got my orders now. Got my second chance for Iraq. I hape I dont get too thursty there. j/k . Good luck guys. Later /goodbye

Gonna miss you 2 Xosirisx oh nvm you /Blist me so you cant see that post. lol. You guys -- take care.

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