Windowed FFXI problem : General & Trouble Shooting

Ok, when i select the option on XU to window ffxi, and then press launch, it opens it, takes me to the login thing in POL, when i hit play, it just minimizes and vanishes. am i doing sumthing wrong? the log looks like this when i do it:
12/29/05 10:00:52 PM XUnleashed Client: Connecting to XUnleashed...
12/29/05 10:00:52 PM XUnleashed Client: Authenticating User...
12/29/05 10:00:52 PM XUnleashed Client: Connected. . .
12/29/05 10:00:52 PM XUnleashed Client: Launching. . .
12/29/05 10:00:53 PM Found Target Process: pol.exe
12/29/05 10:00:53 PM Config Option: Windowed
12/29/05 10:00:53 PM Initializing COM Objects. . .
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM FOUND: Direct3DCreate8
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Starting Services. . .
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM ------->FOUND A StandardSERVICE: XUnleashed Windows Input Service
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM CXUWinInput::Initialize()
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Starting the 3rd Party Services...
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM ------->FOUND A 3rd Party Service: Wyvern's FFXi Servicer
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Starting Plugins. . .
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM ------->FOUND A 3rd Party Plugin: FFXIUnleashed Map Plugin
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Loading Window Schema. . .
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Looking for 3rd Party Service for services\FFXIService.Service
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM SERIOUS ERROR: Failed to find a named Control(btnTargetNearestResource)!!!
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM ------->FOUND A STANDARD Plugin: XUnleashed V2 Triggers
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Loading Window Schema. . .
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM ------->FOUND A STANDARD Plugin: XUnleashed V2 Macros
12/29/05 10:02:35 PM Loading Window Schema. . .
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM ------->FOUND A STANDARD Plugin: XUnleashed V2 Scripts
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM Loading Window Schema. . .
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM Force Windowed Mode ON
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM Attempting to lock onto Client. . .
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM Attempting to lock onto Client. . .
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM DDERR_INVALIDCALL
Force Windowed Mode ON
12/29/05 10:02:36 PM Attempting to lock onto Client. . .

please help ^^

Most likely you have Fraps or nView, XUnleashed does not work with those.

i dont, never did either.

sent to a tech.

12/29/05 10:02:36 PM DDERR_INVALIDCALL

You have *some* video capture tool or graphics driver/application running.

You will need to determine what it is and dissable it.

It could be something simple like nView (although I think nView is working now with XU), or FRAPS, etc

the only things graphics wise i have running is:ffxi element(which i tried removing, and didnt fix anything), high definition audio driver package, and realtek hight def audio driver.

could be an auto downloader, could any other app. might be old graphics drivers, etc.

make sure you do not have hook dx7 checked in options.

idk, this computer is new, as in 6 days. and dx7 isnt checked :/

Does anything else work? Ie can you run the dx7,8,9 test configs? (ie in options at top, select a different config)

yah i ran them all and it worked for them all

What OS are you running?

Cuz i'm running out of ideas.

Its just not happening to anybody else.

sorry to be noobish, but whats OS

12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8
12/30/05 11:51:43 PM Failed Lock8

whats causing this? i'm trying to use azaril windower with XU and i know it works fine without the windower